Saturday, May 3, 2014

Compassion Heals All

The history of humanity since the beginning of time has been permeated with distraught and mass amounts of sadness; two most known periods are the Jewish Holocaust and the African Slave Trade. 

The Holocaust was a massive genocide in World War 2 that was responsible for the persecution and murder of about 6 million Jews led by the Nazi regime. 
The Nazis, who came to power in Germany in January 1933, believed that Germans were racially superior and that the Jews were inferior and were a threat to the German community. During the Holocaust, German Nazi’s would not only harm Jews, but they also would target groups they considered inferior such as gypsies, the disabled, communists, socialists, homosexuals, etc. German Nazi's would kidnap entire Jewish communities and send them off to concentration camps where they would work them until they murdered them off in mass amounts.  By the end of the Holocaust there were more than 20,000 camps to imprison and kill their victims.

The African Slave Trade, during the 16th through the 19th centuries, was a period of great wealth, and also great sadness. The New World started quickly with a new market of cash crops such as tobacco, sugar, and cotton. The need for plantation labor increased and Europeans started the Trans-Atlantic Slave Trade which was the gathering, transport, and sale of African-Americans from Africa to other lands for labor. Over a period of approximately 400 years, about 10-15 million African American people were kidnapped and sold into slavery. These people were packed and smuggled onto tight, crowded ships, and brought to the New World (the Americas) as a source of free profitable labor. Lives for those living in these conditions were awful; they would return from working in the fields, and find their families completely missing, sold off to another city. Sometimes, entire villages were captured by the slave traders and loaded onto ships to be sold to other places around the world. Living back then as a slave was difficult. Living conditions were bad, confinement was a given, slaves were denied any education and they were even bred like animals. 

Learning about both the African Slave Trade and the Holocaust changed my outlook. They are both very similar in the idea they are both morally wrong and extremely painful, but they are also very different. I wondered what the similarities could be between The Holocaust and The African Slave trade, since both dealt with different situations and circumstances. Of course both were awfully unjust, but as I thought about each situation deeper I realized what they had in common is that in order to completely abandon all morality, you have to see the opposing force (in these cases: African-Americans, and Jews) as inhuman. The German Nazi's saw Jewish people as a threat and as animals that needed to die for the well being of humanity. The Europeans, when they enslaved millions of African American people, saw them as a lower status than cattle and pigs, which they traded for. The trade was supported by this racist ideology that saw white people as being the most perfectly developed and blacks as being at the bottom of the ladder.


The fact that someone could treat someone else as if they were an animal is such an alien idea to me, and really took me a while to figure out. By directly comparing someone to animals, or even less than animals, it makes it morally okay to kill and enslave millions of them. 
After thinking, I came to a conclusion that in America we do this as well, just on a different level. We push problems from around the world away from us, and since it isn't happening directly here, it isn't even happening in our minds. Instead of directly comparing humans to animals, we indirectly compare problems that are far away not as important since it isn't happening to us everyday. I believe our reason to do so is based on the fact that compassion hurts. When someone feels connected to everything that is happening in the world, you also feel somewhat responsible. When you are compassionate, you can not turn away. 
In order to fix this, we need to learn to carry the issues, instead of being crushed by them. We must grow strong enough to love the world, with all of it's issues but still remain empty enough to help in the best ways.

In the past few years, Children's Global Alliance has taught me just that. We can't turn our heads away from global issues just because it is the easier thing to do. And, like in both the Holocaust and the African Slave Trade, you cannot loose your morality. You must have compassion in everything you do in your life and know how to carry problems, without them burdening you. And like Anne Frank once said, “How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” 

Sunday, April 13, 2014

Tanzania: Learning about the Maasai


A huge part of Tanzanian culture lies in the hands of the Maasai that reside in both Tanzania and Kenya.  A huge aspect in the Maasai lifestyle is the focus around cattle raising and they move from place to place with their animals. It seems that most of their life is focused on animals; they rely on them for food, such as milk, meat and blood and they also believe that one high god, Enkai, created the world, and when he created the Maasai he gave them cattle and the gift to raise them. When you talk about the Maasai - with two a's - it refers to the people, and with one, it refers to Masai land where the Maasai people live. 

The Maasai people are a very patriarchal, male-dominated society; men typically speak for women and make decisions in the family. Male elders decide community matters. In the Maasai tribe, the men are known to be fierce warriors, and can be recognized by their red cloth they wear called a Shuka. Women are treated very poorly and are responsible for cooking, cleaning, collecting sticks to make fire and building the home.


I have recently watched the movie "The White Massai", which is about an European woman named Carola, who falls in love with a Maasai man, Lemalian. The movie shows the controversial aspects of the clash of cultures and different views on the world. Each culture believes that their belief is the correct one, and since they are unable to understand each other's perspectives it brings out conflict. She learns about how women are treated in the Maasai culture; they are considered less important than cows and goats, how men are not able to even eat food a woman has touched, or even looked at. Girls are also treated differently, where they learn to fear and respect their fathers and are not allowed near them when they eat as well. 
Seeing this movie showed me a lot about the Maasai culture. They are a people and a culture steeped in their traditions and very devoted to their culture. They seem very committed to maintaining their culture and lifestyle without modernization of any kind. While researching and watching this movie, I have begun to understand what life is like for a Maasai woman. Maasai women are usually exploited to make handicrafts that are then sold to tourists.
Coming from an American standpoint, after researching and seeing the difference of how women are treated in Masai land compared to where I live, their life is so alien and unheard of, that we comprehend it as being treated poorly and unfair. If I was to ask a Maasai woman anything, it would be if she feels that she is treated fairly, or unfairly, or if it is just a century-old custom and the differences don't cross her mind. 

Maasai culture for women and men both are extremely different from culture living in the Vail Valley. For example, life for the Maasai is mostly a series of tests for manhood and womanhood that involve the endurance of pain. For boys and men, there is a series of tests from childhood to warriorhood to elder hood. When a boy is four, they are burned by hot coals on their legs and arms and submit to tattooing on their stomachs and arms as well, all without any flinching or look of pain. Circumcision is the next stage, (called excision for girls) and is considered the most important part of a Maasai's life. Circumcision itself will involve immense pain but tests a youth's courage. Girls endure a much longer and more painful circumcision, which they consider preparing for childbearing. 



Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Tanzania: becoming the change I want to see in the world

When I think of all the people that inspire me, the list goes on and on. Inspiration comes from everywhere. I believe it all just has to do with perspective. Everyone and everything around you provides you with a lesson and you can use it as a tool to better yourself. 
Mahatma Gandhi is one of the most inspirational people when I think about how I intend to carry out my life.  Gandhi once said, “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” This is something that Children's Global Alliance has taught me as well. Since starting I now understand that I truly play a role in this world. As long as I’m pointing the finger at everyone else, change won’t come about because It’s not about anyone else, but myself. Someone may be doing terrible things towards others, but I try to ask myself: Am I being loving to myself? Do I perform honorable acts for myself? Do I express love and gratitude towards my family? Am I loving and patient towards everyone in my life?
As long as I keep the message of Gandhi and the children I have helped in both Nicaragua and Cambodia, I can share their love and knowledge towards the people in my world, and the people in my life. In turn, I can potentially spark a change in someone else. Someone who was loving, inspired me to do the same, and in turn, I will inspire others. That's how Gandhi says we change the world. 
Gandhi brought India to independence by using non-violent resistance. His exceptional leadership skills are something that I could learn as a mentor this year. Simplicity is the second most heroic quality that Gandhi showed. He believed in living a simple life, he urged a simple life with only the necessities that he needed. The children in Cambodia taught me this as well, that love is truly all you need to be happy. 

Another person that inspires me is someone I have met only just a year ago. She lost her husband in a tragic accident and every single day she pushes through and does not let anything stop her. This woman was able to create an organization in both of their names using his message of helping others. Being in Cambodia with her and seeing how the people of Cambodia grew from their sadness and how they chose not to morn but use their past to create a stronger future, really made me realize this is something she had also done this whole time. She is able to spread her husbands message of love and compassion while doing the things she loves. She is able to inspire others with her ability to not necessarily "move on" but how she is able to not let his death hold her back, but instead she is able to carry out his qualities that made him who he is. This is something that I believe everyone should learn from; to not let what happens in the past define you but rather use it for growth. I am so grateful I am able to join this woman on another journey as well to Tanzania this summer. 


I would not be who I am today without my best friend. Since probably 5th grade she has been such a huge part in my life. She is always so full of light and wherever she goes she is able to radiate this love and happiness that so many people need in their life, which makes her who she is. In 2012 I traveled to Nicaragua with CGA for the first time with her. Seeing her passion the entire time showed me the way, and I believe being with her is what sparked my fire to help others as well. Last summer we were able to go to Cambodia together. This was our second trip, so both of us were able to share the same passion and work with each other in a different way than before. Being with her makes me a stronger person because of her incredible drive towards what she believes in as well as her ability to fully extend every ounce of her being helping others. 
I am unsure of what I did in order to be able to travel with her again this upcoming trip to Tanzania, but I have never been more prepared, or grateful. Being the mentor this year, I am ready to use everything I have learned in the past from her and use it to create a fire to hopefully spark someone else's flame, like she did to mine. I am ready to use her passion that I have grown from, and help others have the same drive. 



"What animal would you be and why?" When I received this prompt it took me a while to find the "perfect" animal to describe who I am most like, or what animal I could be. While I was in bed thinking about all the animals in the world, it came to me. The answer had been cuddling with me all along- a dog.

I read somewhere about Chinese Feng Shui, that cats actually have a tendency to absorb negative energy in people and in their homes because they can detect these negative areas biologically. They absorb radiation, sickness, disease, or pain from these spots and also shield others from the harmful affects. I have always found this so interesting, but as I looked more closely into the information I found that that dogs are also capable of doing this. Unlike cats, dogs don't absorb the negative vibrations and energies like cats do, instead they recycle it. They take in the negative energy, and transform it into positive energy that they send out. 


I have always seen myself as a "dog" in this sense when it comes to problems with my friends, family, school, and all areas in my life. Knowing this now, I realize this is something I have always did in some way or another; when something negative happens in my life, I exert it's affects on me as positive energy.

Dogs are known for being loyal, being by your side every moment you need them. They love you unconditionally no matter way the circumstances are. I aim to be a loyal friend on a day to day basis and this is something that I now realize this whole time I could learn from my own pup.

Monday, December 23, 2013

Looking into my trip to Tanzania

When I think about where I am going to in only a couple months, it astounds me to see that I have come this far already. 
Being with Children's Global Alliance for the third year in a row, and perceiving how much I have changed and grown as an individual in the last few years, makes me realize how precious these opportunities are. 

I could live a thousand lives and still have areas to grow and more to learn. When I imagine myself after I return to America, I hope that who I return as is a leader, and someone who was able to change the lives of students and children from around the world. I imagine myself as someone who is able to radiate the same love the children filled me with, to those back home and to everyone I come in contact with. I want to be able to change other's lives just by the pure joy and happiness I can share with them.

My greatest fear and what I believe is going to be the most difficult part going into this experience, as I have every other trip, is not being able to say goodbye to the children who's smiles and laughter have given me so much of a drive for those short 3 weeks. As I reflect on my previous trips, yes saying goodbye is the most difficult experience, but every tear you or the children shed, confirms just how much of an impression you had made on those children's lives, and how much they have truly made on yours, which in my opinion is the most fulfilling part of the entire trip.  

Thursday, October 31, 2013

Tanzania!

Hello everyone!! 

So I wanted to thank you all for your love and support since 2012 when I tried out for Nicaragua with Children's Global Alliance, a nonprofit organization in Vail, Colorado. Seeing how far I have come as an individual is incredible, and every single day I can notice the difference in myself. Working in Escuela Especial por Maria Romero and in the Cooperation of Peace Orphanage showed me to value every single thing in my life, everyone I encounter and to love freely. Feeling a new sense of global responsibility, along with a new set of standards I know hold myself and others up to, I am ready to continue on my journey.

After writing an essay describing why this trip was important to me, and creating a fundraising plan to fundraise the $3000, finally I received the news that this upcoming summer of 2014, I will be traveling to Tanzania as a student mentor to 10 other students to work in the Naserian school and orphanage.

I am so excited to embark on this journey and spread my love to yet another place in this world 

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So much thanks, and gratitude. 
Love you all! 
Makena

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Cambodia Reflecting

It's been 63 days since I returned from Cambodia, and yet I'm still there. Every thought I have is consumed by every single person I met since day one of such an extraordinary adventure. I look at the clock at night and tell myself, "oh it's 10:30, which means it would be 9:30 am at the orphanage, and some of the kids would be going to English school right now."
The bonds we made in the seemingly short 3 weeks we were there are truly everlasting. Not only will I never forget about any moment we spent there, every single kid we encountered will too. 
I am so grateful I was able to change lives around the world and spread my love to those who had not been given it for their whole lives. I am so proud we were able to leave our mark on 50 orphaned and abandoned children. When I think about it, those children are not abandoned anymore; they will always be in my heart.

Friday, June 28, 2013

Cambodia: Last Days at the Orphanage


Saying goodbye is always difficult, but yesterday it was so much more than that.

I am so proud of myself and everyone that is on this trip with me. We were able to improve the lives of many children in different aspects; love, laughter, building them a new house, and giving them something to hope for.

These children have been able to change my life, and yesterday was such a rewarding day. Everything we have worked for has been accomplished, along with incredible new friendships that will last a lifetime. Every hug we were given from every child just proved how far we had come and truly how much of an impact we had made. As the sun went down, the laughter began to simmer, and the sound of tears slowly replaced it. Every hug we gave meant so much more than it did earlier that day, because for most of us, it would be the last one we were able to give. Every tear just proved how much this trip really meant to the children, to us, and to the chaperones.

Before going on this trip, our idea of love was different. I thought I was fully aware of what love was, but it’s so much more than that. The kids that we worked with at the orphanage had never been given love, but were filled with it. They taught us a new idea of love and gave us a new perspective on everything we thought of as normal. I am eternally grateful to all the children at CPO, and I am so glad I was given this opportunity.